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An investigation into the joy and pain of fitting in: You know the type. She was popular and confident — and certainly beautiful, though looks were only part of her appeal.

She was also casually rebellious, tending toward classic cool-kid pastimes: Her behavior probably horrified your parents and teachers, which is exactly what made being around her so thrilling. For years, social scientists have been studying her power. Just what is it that makes an alpha girl so magnetic?

Is she born? Or created?

And does she stay that way forever? The very definition of popularity starts to change around that time.

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There are the well-liked students, and then there is the emergence of a new group, which researchers call the high-status students — these are the ones kings Canyon amature teena dominate their social groups, who are perhaps voted to the homecoming court, or think captain of the soccer team.

This distinction — between status and likability — is everyone thinks you re such a nice girl important in understanding the alpha girl over her teenage-boy counterpart. Alpha boys tend to be aggressive in physical ways, starting fights or pushing each other around, while alpha girls are more likely to act in relationally aggressive ways, spreading rumors or using the silent treatment.

But the behaviors can be interchangeable; sometimes the guys gossip, and the girls fight. The most critical difference in how alpha-like traits manifest in men and women, research suggests, is how the other students react to those acts of aggression.

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But that is so not the case for girls. The correlation between likability and status approaches zero for girls. Some alpha girls are born that way.

But others teach themselves how to become alphas, learning social skills from watching adults, or from their own experiences at a young age. But perhaps more importantly, the reason alpha girls have such a hold over their peers may be at least partially explained by the neurological growth teenagers are experiencing. Teenage brains are highly attuned to social rewards, especially receiving positive feedback from their peers, and the popular kids — girls and guys — seem to be swimming in.

The farther they can get from anything adults approve of, the better. Hence the allure of the alpha girl.

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High-status teenagers, the research suggests, tend to behave in ways adults find inappropriate, which other teenagers find exhilarating. They are, in a word, cool.

Their daring, adult-like-but-not-adult-approved thikns is the reason they claim the dominant, central role in their friend groups, Allen explained. It goes back to the notion of teenage autonomy. But every researcher I talked to said the opposite; several of them, for that matter, pointed me toward a fascinating study led giirl Allen and published in in the journal Child Developmenttitled: If you are an alpha in high school, in other words, you are not necessarily an alpha for life.

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The social skills the cool girls and guys learned in high school tend not to work very well after they leave. But the rest of the world has moved on.

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